Tribute to Marina Bakhnova
This morning we had a memorial ceremony here at the University for Peace Campus to remember Marina, to express our sorrow for her passing away and celebrate her life. We thank all of you for the many messages of condolences we have received. We shared them all with her husband, Tom and son Yuri.
When a dear friend or family member departs, it often makes us evaluate… assess… think about what we are doing with our own lives… How are we relating with our loved ones and others… and whether we are fulfilling the purpose of our life… This is what probably happened in many of our minds and hearts during this past week as we were grieving the loss of Marina, our dear friend and colleague.
We want to express our sorrow for this loss, Marina passed away last Friday 22 April, she was at home early in the morning, but at the same time, we want to celebrate her life and beauty.
We want to express gratitude for having had the opportunity to know her and to learn so many things from her. It seems that many things emerge, or shine more clearly as our dear ones go - as if she had to leave so that her purpose in life could be seen or perceived more.
Marina’s first encounter with the Earth Charter Initiative was during an Earth Charter consultation that Rustem Khairov organized in Moscow in 1996. She was there and always helped the foreigners understand the discussion with her translation. She has been our bridge between the Russian speaking world and its culture and the others involved in the Earth Charter Initiative.
My first impression of her was, and has continued to be all these years, related to her elegance and sense of care for others. Throughout all this time there seemed to be a constant in her life: a unique mixture of sophistication and modesty. She made me think this week that if we want to make the world a beautiful place we need to start with oneself, taking care of one’s self and being beautiful inside out. At the same time she had a unique sensitivity to others, not only to friends and colleagues, but also to all the animals that we have around the Upeace campus. She was very caring, actuation concerned, for street dogs and cats. As our colleague Alicia mentioned this week, she realized she started liking cats after she met Marina. We receive lots of interns in our office and Marina often had a special dedication of her time, off office hours, to help them feel more “at home”. She paid special attention to the gardeners, drivers and guards around our office and had a singular relationship with them. This shows her unique human qualities with this special attitude.
On behalf of all of those in the Earth Charter Initiative, ECI Council members, Affiliates, colleagues and friends, we want to express our deep gratitude to Marina for everything she has done for us as human beings and for her unique contribution to the goals of the Initiative. Especially we want to thank her for reminding us that the essence of the human being lies in a deep connection with other human beings and the large living world.
The Earth Charter Team and Council members
We share some images of our gathering here today
Sofia, Dmitry said this on
29 Apr 2011 1:33:19 PM CDT
Marina was a wonderful person, rich and amazing individual and such a kind and honest friend. She became so close and dear to us that this absence is devastating. She helped us start and support so many initiatives in Belarus, link us with wonderful friends and partners in Europe and all over the world. We miss you and love you very much, Marina.
Sofia Savelava, Dmitry Savelau and the team of the Youth International Education Club NEWLINE, Earth Charter Initiative in Belarus. |
Yuri said this on
04 May 2011 8:48:30 PM CDT
Dear all, my mom loved to gather friends at her place in Ciudad Colon. So I would like to invite all of her and my friends to her place once again to remember her. We will have a drink, talk and say good bye her way, light-hearted and smiling. I think she would have liked that. So please come everybody - starting 3 pm, Sunday May 8.
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Anonimous said this on
29 Apr 2011 2:12:04 PM CDT
A Marina Bakhnova, in memoriam
Aquí, en los Jardines de Quizur, así bautizados por la Universidad para la Paz en homenaje al escritor Roberto Brenes Mesén, autor del poema Rasur, nos une un puente transcontinental con Rusia. Fresia Brenes, hija del padre de Rasur, unió su vida a Rusia y la poetisa se nombró Fresia Hilarov. Años después, Marina hizo de Costa Rica su hogar sin dejar su Rusia, su profunda fe ortodoxa, su extraordinaria cultura y don de gentes que transmitió en su dulce forma a quienes tuvimos el privilegio de compartir con ella en estos Jardines hoy reverdecidos y celebrantes de la vida. Marina es una guaria inmortal que crecerá en los Jardines de Quizur y adornará los siglos futuros con su belleza de alma e irradiará su luz como el arroyo que colma el océano con su líquido vital. Marina vivirá en todos y cada uno de quienes la conocimos como un ejemplo imperecedero de delicadeza y nobleza de espíritu. Ronald Castro Fernández El Rodeo 29 de abril, 2011 |
Alicia Jimenez said this on
02 May 2011 2:49:51 PM CDT
Muchas gracias por este mensaje tan inspirador!
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Vickie A. Hann said this on
29 Apr 2011 5:33:19 PM CDT
Thank you for honoring Marina at the University and for sharing the pictures from the ceremony. The words of expression in the tribute are really beautiful and most fitting for one of the finest human beings I have ever known. Her love and wondrous spirit will live on through each and every one of us. SALUT dear, sweet Marina
Vickie A. Hann Hilton Arlington, USA |
Gabi said this on
01 May 2011 6:53:20 AM CDT
Dear Earth Charter Team, thank you for sharing the pictures and report from the memorial ceremony with us. It is a wonderful way of honoring Marina, who will be greatly missed by many. What a wonderfully elegant and eloquent lady she was! I have only met her a few times, but every time I was positively struck by her warmth and ability to make people smile. My sincere condolences to all of Marina's loved ones.
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Alicia Jimenez said this on
02 May 2011 10:09:00 AM CDT
I am deeply grateful to have had the chance to meet Marina. She was always attentive to the needs of the others, always had a
positive thing to say. She was a great example to me, of how to be caring and loving with all. Such an elegant lady, she is an example of the Earth Charter in practice. I love u Marina! Yes, am a bit sad that she left us so soon, but that is life. I just can be thankful for our moments together and hopeful that she is now in heaven. |
Erdchartaweg Amberg-Sulzbach said this on
03 May 2011 10:12:33 AM CDT
Dear Earth Charter Team, we are very sorry about the loss of Marina. She initiated and supported our European Earth Charter network in the last couple of months in a great way. She will be deeply missed and our heart reaches out to all her family, friends and collegues. Marinas work will be a like a grain that will grow into a big tree!
Erdchartaweg Amberg-Sulzbach (Evi, Ena, Mariella, Brigitte, Irene and all the others) |
Henriette Rasmussen said this on
05 May 2011 6:56:09 AM CDT
It is with great sorrow I learn about Marina's death. I liked her so much, the words above are so true that she was at the same time sophisticated and modest. She was a lovely person. My warmest greetings to her husband and her son, whom we learned her love about.
May her memory be guarded - Eqqaaneqarnera ataqqinartuuli! Henriette Rasmussen Nuuk Greenland |
Christina said this on
05 May 2011 8:10:14 AM CDT
Я буду помнить с любовью -
I will remember you with love... |
Christina said this on
05 May 2011 8:12:55 AM CDT
Dear Marina, I will always remember you with love...
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Stephanie Tansey said this on
06 May 2011 2:38:52 AM CDT
Thank you Marina for helping me when I was in Turkmenistan 2002-4. Because of you I could lay some Earth Charter seeds in Central Asia. You were my bridge too.
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Remko and Vivian said this on
06 May 2011 5:38:26 AM CDT
We were shocked to hear of the loss of Marina. We met Marina at the Earth Charter meetings in the Netherlands. Thinking of Marina as a very sweet, warm, friendly, hard working and helpful lady.
Dear family, friends and the Earth Charter team, we wish you all the strenght you need in these difficult times. Remko and Vivian (and the rest of the team of Organisatieburo Grand Canyon) |
Sujan said this on
06 May 2011 6:46:31 AM CDT
Dear Marine,
Your spirit will be remembered always by the ECI Youth. Sujan Saha Bangladesh |
Petra Lum, Cameroon said this on
06 May 2011 2:37:16 PM CDT
The Youth Policy For Reproductive Health Task Force and the Adele Reproductive Health Foundation volunteers observed a minute silence for the passing away of Marina, a member of the Earth Charter. May her soul rest in perfect peace. Amen
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Anna Kirey said this on
07 May 2011 1:35:47 PM CDT
Rest in Peace, Marina! Пусть земля Вам будет пухом. I did not want to believe it was you when I read alumni news just now.
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Sergey Shafarenko said this on
08 May 2011 10:40:21 PM CDT
Thank to Marina for your big heart, big work for Russia and Kazakhstan. We all remeber your light ray.
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Sam Crowell said this on
09 May 2011 2:56:31 PM CDT
Marina, your very presence made a difference to all who knew you. Your kindness and generous nature shone through with every word. The love you shared will be radiated through every one whose life you touched.
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Leena Akatama said this on
15 May 2011 11:06:23 AM CDT
Green Living Movement Finland want to express warm condolences and thank Marina for her efforts to welcome us to the EC family.
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